The term concussion is well known. The medical field refers
to a concussion as a TBI – Traumatic Brain Injury. Contact sports are one of
the top causes of a TBI, another are MVCs – Motor Vehicle Collisions.
My teenaged son has endured four concussions. The first two
as a goalie for the Junior Hurricanes and the third in a MVC. The first one took
him out of school for a month and hockey for three months. The second, a year
later, was more mild, which is unusual. Typically, a patient suffers a more
severe TBI the second time. In the MVC, a classmate was driving them to school
when another car struck them. This third TBI ended my son’s hockey career,
preventing him from attending the Junior Hockey draft in Canada Spring of 2013.
The problem wasn’t simply that this was his third concussion,
although that in itself is a strong reason to end a contact sport career. With
this third TBI, a neurologist evaluated him versus just the concussion clinic MDs
who’d treated him with the first two. Not only was it his third TBI, but his symptoms
were extremely severe, which didn’t make sense to me – the details of the MVC
didn’t suggest such injuries for my son: 1) None of the others involved in the crash
suffered any injuries 2) No air bags deployed 3) Vehicle damage was minor. As
an EMT for nearly a decade, I wondered about underlining health conditions in
my son. I also considered he had not fully recovered from the first two
concussions and was in denial about his symptoms in order to play hockey.
Sure enough, the neurologist diagnosed my son with
hyper-mobile joints (something I already knew but wasn’t aware of the danger
with contact sports.) The MD also diagnosed him with mild CP (cerebral palsy),
a diagnosis that made sense to me since my son was born in respiratory arrest
and was non-verbal and had spasticity until over age two. Both diagnosis are a
recipe for injury, especially in contact sports. The MD gently told my son he
was done playing goalie forever – it was devastating and crushed him. Understanding
his hockey career was over, he admitted he’d ignored symptoms because he had a shot
to play Junior Hockey, college hockey, and possibly professional hockey. A
life-long athletic competitor myself, I completely understood the denial that
led him to ignore his body.
Hyper-mobile joints, while creating an incredibly athletic
body, are highly susceptible to any musculoskeletal injury in that individual.
For my son, after two TBIs in a contact sport, his hyper-mobile neck was easily
and severely whip-lashed in the MVC, jostling his brain fiercely, causing all his
concussion symptoms to return and more heightened than ever.
Ten months after the car accident, the fourth TBI occurred
December 2013 just days after the neurologist cleared my son to return to his
life minus contact sports. The neurologist gave my son the green light to snowboard.
That December day on the mountain, my son didn’t even hit his head and he
sustained no head trauma – simply snowboarding jostled his brain enough to
cause another TBI.
Even though he’s extremely athletic, my son’s body shouldn’t
do what it can to do. The risk of permanent brain damage and partial or full
paralysis is too high for him-- something he now understands. I described it to
him as this: When Cam Ward (the goalie for the NHL team Carolina Hurricanes) is
playing goalie, his body is naturally like a SUV of protection in a MVC. Whereas, for my son, his body is like a motorcycle in a MVC – no protection.
Until Spring 2015, my son is restricted from doing anything
with speed, wheels, height or repetition (basically everything fun.) This next
year his brain will heal, then little by little he can attempt things (no
contact sports ever, though) to see how his body responds. At 6’7” in height
and extremely athletic, he appears a medically sound seventeen-year-old, but
inside his body tells a different story.
God works in amazing ways and this is my son’s blessing. Since cerebral palsy only affects motor
function, and none of the four TBIs caused him any loss of cognitive abilities,
he’s still as annoyingly brilliant as ever and is anxious to head off to
college this fall. For now, his goal is to graduate medical school with a
degree in neurology and become a neurosurgeon since he feels (understandably
so) he can relate to patients’ symptoms with head trauma.
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Dianna Torscher Benson is a 2014
Selah Award Finalist (winners not yet announced), a 2011 Genesis Winner, a 2011
Genesis double Semi-Finalist, a 2010 Daphne de Maurier Finalist, and a 2007
Golden Palm Finalist. In 2012, she signed a nine-book contract with Ellechor
Publishing House. She’s the author of The
Hidden Son, her debut novel. Final
Trimester is her second release.
After majoring in
communications and a ten-year career as a travel agent, Dianna left the travel
industry to earn her EMS degree. An EMT and a Haz-Mat and FEMA Operative since
2005, she loves the adrenaline rush of responding to medical emergencies and
helping people in need.
Dianna lives in North Carolina
with her husband and their three children.
Website: www.diannatbenson.com
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Dianna - Again thank you for visiting our high schoolers at ACS. It was a real treat and your kindness to the students with their host of questions and stay-behind-activity was so special. Your sharing your son's injuries is heart rendering and you and he seem to be handling it so very well. Thank you for this insight into your life experiences and I can't wait to read your upcoming book - Final Trimester!
ReplyDeleteInteresting article. My son is also 17 with hypermobile joints. We didn't know until he tore his ACL and shoulder labrum playing football this past year. He's also devastated about giving up contact sports. Prayers that they both develop stronger faith because of these trials.
ReplyDeleteHi Vera and Janet. Thank you for reading my article and for posting a comment. Vera, I'm so glad ACS enjoyed my visit; I enjoyed my time speaking there that day. Janet, I'm so sorry to hear about your son. It's so rough, isn't it? Yes, prayers for both our boys. Finally, my son has moved on, but it took him a year to accept and mourn the loss of playing goalie in hockey. Hang in there!
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